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What are you working for? 3 Lessons to Remember your passion in 2011

Home for the holidays.  And it has been quite an adventure.  Flew into Norfolk, Virginia, rented a car, immediately made the 6 hour trek into the Appalachian Mountains to see my Dad and SW Virginia family.  A foot of snow was on the ground and it just kept coming.  It was a huge departure from the 85 degree weather of Austin, TX.

Five days later, I drove back to Norfolk and over to Portsmouth to spend Christmas with my Mom and brother.  The ground was clear of any white but on Christmas night, that changed drastically.  It started coming down fast and sticking.  By morning there was 18 inches of snow.  Today, my flight back home to Austin was canceled due to the inclement weather.

The unfortunate part of the stay at my Mom’s is her lack of internet access.  I am in the middle of trying to coordinate my  upcoming live interview with Amy Christensen of Expand Outdoors and her Renewal Expedition.  Being disconnected for so many days has been very uncomfortable for me – but also very revealing.  (As a matter of fact, I came 2 miles in 18 inches of snow to the nearby McDonald’s to use their wifi to write this post.  haha  Now I sound like a grandparent.)

So what have I learned in 5 days of being disconnected from the internet and the world?

1.  It is easy to lose sight of our bigger picture and our true passions – our driving force – when we are focused on our screens for 8+ hours per day.

My brother invited a friend over to my Mom’s house for Christmas.  This fellow has one passion in life: cooking.  In the fall of 2011, he is taking 40 days off to cycle across the US from Virginia to San Francisco armed with his resume and his passion.  He intends to stop in restaurants along the way to work with and learn from the Chef’s across the US.

It’s inspiring.  It’s exciting.  It’s rock’n'roll.  And it reminded me of an important dream of my own: to cycle the US armed with MY work and passion.

In 2009, I borrowed a bike from an amazing entrepreneur friend, Ashley Whittenburger, and trained 8 hours per day in 110 degree weather so I could ride from NYC to Washington D.C. in 5 days.  I started training (and riding a road bike for the first time in my life) 6 weeks before the ride.  My first week, I rode 300 miles.  I was in love.

I knew then that I wanted to cycle the US.  But as work and life got so busy, I completely lost sight of my own bigger picture and my “bucket list.”

2.  When we take a week away from the noise and the digital, we have a chance to make real human connections again.  The result: simplicity.

It is so easy to get overwhelmed and lost in the depths of content on the web.   With all of us putting out new content every day, it is humanly impossible to consume it all – no matter how much we want to.

With the soft launch of my official social media management agency, Bell Social, I have become pretty good at mastering social media content and engagement.  But what takes it to the next level?  Human interaction.  Face to face connection.  Authenticity.

Here I am snowed in.  No TV.  No internet.  Almost no cell reception.  Just me and 3 other people – talking, sharing stories, our passions, playing in the snow, and connecting.

This is why I do Love Your Work Life.  I am obsessed with people and their passions.  In my hyper focus on others I almost forgot my own.

3.  Remember what you are working for.

So, here it is…  Parts of my bucket list.  Parts of what I am working for. A rememberance of who I am, what I want, and why I work.

•  I want to cycle the U.S. doing talks about following your passions, living today, and loving your work life.  I want to share the inspiring stories of the amazing people I have the priveldge of interviewing.  I want to share stories and inspiration.  I want to show people where their legs can take them.

•  I want to write a book – about my adventures, about conquering my own fears and living the life I dream of, and about YOU and your inspiring victories of love and work and life.

•  I want to cycle every day.  I want to share good food and healthy adventures across the country with all of you.

•  I want to get more people using Twitter, Hootsuite, and joining the conversation on social media vehicles.  I get so discouraged when people and businesses I like are not on Twitter.

•  I want to add an online Work-Life art gallery to Love Your Work Life.

•  I want to pay off my mortgage in Austin, TX.

Those are just a few things I have remembered by unplugging.  What is on your “bucket list” that you’ve forgotten about?   What are you passionate about?  What are you working for?



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7 Responses to “What are you working for? 3 Lessons to Remember your passion in 2011”

  1. Lisa Tener December 27, 2010 at 3:41 pm #

    Hi Betty Jean,

    I’m with you. Being unplugged can feel uncomfortable, but once we unplug, we often connect more deeply to others and to that deeper part of ourselves. A good thing.

    I’m looking forward to helping you check that book off your bucket list and to our teleseminar January 6: Write Your Book once and for all! Make your dreams real in 2011.

    My bucket list includes more time unplugged for dancing, walking the cliff walk in Newport, Ri, and laughing with my kids. And that means completing some of my new book-writing products so I can easily carve out more time! Oh, yeah, and write my next book, too.

    • Betty Jean Bell December 28, 2010 at 2:47 pm #

      I can’t wait to do the book writing course with you, Lisa! And I cannot WAIT to introduce you guys to Lisa… again! This will be my second call with Lisa. Her book writing course is like no other – and I have researched SEVERAL until I found her. Look for our LIVE interview on January 6th, 2011. Make this the year you write your book once and for all!

      Thanks for commenting Lisa! Great to hear from you on here!

      And yes… dance, baby, dance!

  2. Alicia Jay December 28, 2010 at 9:00 pm #

    Hi Betty Jean,

    I just wanted to say that this is a great article! My business is online and there is not a day that goes by that I’m not “plugged in” in some way. In this digital age, I think we can all learn something from your experience!
    Alicia Jay recently posted..My Non-Resolution- Stop with the “Don’t” Thoughts- Start with the “Do” Thoughts

    • Betty Jean Bell December 29, 2010 at 2:57 pm #

      I’m still bouncing around trying to find internet today so I can tell you and everyone about The Renewal Expedition at 8pm CST. Being disconnecting when your whole business is online is, well… nerve racking. But I now know that I also need to switch phones and get a Droid for it’s hubspot capabilites.

      Anyone know if the iPhone is capable of being a wifi hubspot without costing an arm & a leg???

      But yeah… a temporary break from being plugged in makes a HUGE difference in how we live our lives. Don’t know if I was totally prepared to be unplugged for almost two weeks, though… ha!

      Thanks for commenting, Alicia! It’s great to meet you!

  3. Sam Davidson December 28, 2010 at 9:32 pm #

    Very well put! Passion and simplicity often go hand in hand, as you noted with the human connection reminder. I love to see people reconnect with their passion!

    • Betty Jean Bell December 29, 2010 at 2:55 pm #

      Thanks, Sam. You are a HUGE inspiration to live life passionately. If y’all haven’t checked out Sam’s brand new book, “50 Things Your Life Doesn’t Need” then do so now. This book is all about reducing the B.S. and noise in your life that keeps you from living an inspired and passionate life.

      GREAT READ!

      You rock, Sam.

  4. income opp October 13, 2011 at 8:54 pm #

    Great blog!! love all the information you give.

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